Investing Emotionally vs Rationally: Navigating the Emotional Landscape
To explore the idea that we are promised a fairy tale outcome from birth, only to face the harsh reality of fight or flight, the path taken is often determined by our understanding and knowledge of reality.
People who are labeled as 'feels' are more inclined to base decisions on emotions rather than logic. While evidence suggests that this trait might have a genetic component, no clear genetic marker has been identified to date. However, feelings can be influenced not only by heredity but also by the environment and may be affected by conditions such as autism. Additionally, substance use, particularly smoking, can impact this trait, altering one's emotional state over time.
The Value of Emotions Over Logic
We place a higher value on emotions than on logic and truth because emotions are the driving force behind many of our actions. Without emotions, we would not be motivated to engage in many of the activities we choose to pursue. This point is illustrated by a poignant statement from my math teacher: 'Math is logical, and the reason why people find it challenging is because people are illogical.' It is estimated that over half the world believes in religions that cannot be substantiated by facts and science, suggesting that emotions play a significant role in shaping our beliefs and behaviors.
Differentiating Emotions and Feelings
While emotions and feelings are often used interchangeably, they are distinct concepts. Emotions are typically reactive responses to situations, persons, or circumstances, often influenced by our constructs or a third chakra, which is located below the heart center. Emotions are instinctual. In contrast, feelings originate from within ourselves and are not related to the ego, they are unconditional. They are associated with the heart center, or fourth chakra. Rationality, denoted by the fifth chakra, refers to objective mind function, a love for truth, and the pursuit of wisdom.
According to the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), 50 percent of individuals are categorized as feeling types, while the other 50 percent are thinking types. Feeling types prioritize their emotional responses, while thinking types place greater importance on rationality.
The Role of Rationality
Rationality is a crucial tool for convincing others of one's viewpoint or solving problems for emotional reasons. A mind operating purely on rationality without the influence of emotions would not initiate any action unless directed by someone else, much like a computer. While rationality plays a vital role in many of our decision-making processes, it cannot motivate action on its own. Emotional motivation is essential for driving meaningful action in life.
The Mind-Body Connection
The interplay between our emotions and rational thinking creates a complex and dynamic relationship. Emotional investing involves making decisions based on feelings, while rational investing relies on logical analysis. The evolution of our understanding of the mind-body connection provides valuable insights into why people invest emotionally.
Understanding the differences between emotions and feelings, as well as the role of rationality, can help us navigate the emotional landscape more effectively. By recognizing the impact of emotions on our decision-making processes, we can better manage our emotional investing and foster a more balanced approach to life.
In conclusion, whether we prioritize emotions or rationality, it is essential to recognize the interconnectedness of both in our decision-making processes. Emotions provide motivation and drive, while logic ensures informed and sound decisions. By understanding these dynamics, we can make more informed and balanced choices in our personal and professional lives.